they couldn't match their schedules and only did it 2 or 3 times in the next 2 years
I can never understand those issues in manga. I get it, you are studying for exams and shit. But you really don't need to study 7 days a week, 16 hours a day, for 2 years. If anything, not taking time to decompress is counterproductive. "Blooming Love" had the same issue - they started dating and didn't have a date in like 9 months because they were busy? Seriously? You don't have a couple of hours to meet at any point in 9 months? I had more time when I was in my workaholic phase...Jesus christ, it's like they coudln't ever get valentine's and christmas and maybe their birthday available during 2 freaking years
At this point, I think these types of romance mangas are done not to tell a consistent story nor a realistic one.I can never understand those issues in manga. I get it, you are studying for exams and shit. But you really don't need to study 7 days a week, 16 hours a day, for 2 years. If anything, not taking time to decompress is counterproductive. "Blooming Love" had the same issue - they started dating and didn't have a date in like 9 months because they were busy? Seriously? You don't have a couple of hours to meet at any point in 9 months? I had more time when I was in my workaholic phase...
Back when I was in Uni, I was going home by train, 5.5 hours in one direction, every few weeks. At this age, this is really neither tiresome nor that big of an investment. You're excited to see your partner after a few weeks more than anything. You can even study on the train or at their place if you want to, it's still more enjoyable when spending time in the same space. It's purely a matter of will and commitment.
i'm starting to think that they just enjoy the first time with someone and don't really enjoy sex itselfMaybe I'm just built different, but if I had a cute girlfriend who wanted to do it with me, I would simply have sex more than once a year regardless of what was going on in my life.
It's not about this work specifically. This trope is so common in manga, that it kinda makes me understand why Japan has a population problem. It really gives you the feeling that it's "normal" to put your work 1st, 2nd, and 3rd, and relationships are treated like an afterthought, or taken for granted. Maybe that's why they make so much NTR - when so many people take their relationship for granted, it's not hard to put a wedge in, and real-life transfers to media.At this point, I think these types of romance mangas are done not to tell a consistent story nor a realistic one.
What easily sells and attracts editors (and serializations) is for mangas to have a specific starting quirk (in this case, their 2-year difference in age) and then follow a strict collection of tropes for its genre. Authors are not going to stray too much from this, because they want to make it in the scene, so it would be way too risky, especially if they aren't very good writers despite being good artists (which is often the case). The starting quirk is pretty much the only "innovation" you are going to get here.
All this to say that you should expect too much from it, and comparing it to real life is going to be an exercise in frustration.
What I said before isn't just about this one story, it does apply to most mangas, and yes I'm absolutely convinced that tropes are fundamental for the Japanese domestic market, or at the very least they appease the editors.It's not about this work specifically. This trope is so common in manga, that it kinda makes me understand why Japan has a population problem. It really gives you the feeling that it's "normal" to put your work 1st, 2nd, and 3rd, and relationships are treated like an afterthought, or taken for granted. Maybe that's why they make so much NTR - when so many people take their relationship for granted, it's not hard to put a wedge in, and real-life transfers to media.
Not to mention that there was absolutely no need to even mention it here - the author goes out of their way to emphasize how little time they've spent together. And for what reason? The story would not be affected in any way if the author didn't put in that final bubble. Is it a virtue in Japan to not put work in your relationship, or something? Is that what "sells"? I'm mystified by the thinking process behind it.
Post-nut clarityI like how she came to her sense of the real situation, like after doing it