@MagiciansBlack
well, if she didn't put her fiance in her eyes or even care about him, then it quite makes sense, since before remembering her past life she's truly on the peak of pride noble lady ~
and after 'experiencing' life as ossan, become mature and 'humble, now she try to 'see' everything around her more often ~
and she didn't have problem living as girl after remembering her past life, usually on Gendbend isekai troupe, after remembering their past life as opposite sex they had hard time to live with new gender
(tho probably the author has yet touch that topic, probably on later chapter)