I mean, I have to agree with the guy. I think that she's slowly changing, but he hasn't been shown any of it. To him, she still fits the person "who make light of others and believe that they can rule over anyone as they wish" bit to a tee. Such a person is basically little more than garbage, in my opinion. As I said before, though, I think she does show signs of changing, so I'm still interested in where this will lead.