Boku to GAL ga Fufu ni Narumade - Ch. 9

[Azusu]

i fell for this double twist shit

 

[potatoroll]

Blueballing shit. But what bothers me most isn't them not fucking, that's a given and normal in these kind of manga. What bothers me is wasting whole chapters with blueballing with no plot progress whatsoever.
Maybe I should just put it on hold and wait for the ending before retaking

 

[paela69]

yall be talkin bout sex n shit, I just wanna know what was in her room and why she's keeping it a secret it's been eating me inside

 

[IJustReadEverything]

Responsibility is about more than just having kids. Sex isn't something you do the moment your dick itches and there's a girl nearby. She's not ready for it, he's not ready for it, and they're both not ready for a proper marriage.

Uh, they were totally down for it. The dude was just hung up on the "responsibility" of marriage and kids thinking it as part of sex. They created a romantic mood and they totally could have done intimate things without going all the way.

Which is frustrating because most Japanese romance series doesn't distinguish between having a intimate moment as a couple and having sex for procreation. It's either kiss then fuck for kids or none at all.

 

[BuyVelomobiles]

Uh, they were totally down for it.

She was literally trembling in fear.

The dude was just hung up on the "responsibility" of marriage and kids thinking it as part of sex.

You say "just hung up" like that's not the entire thing to be hung up on.

They created a romantic mood and they totally could have done intimate things without going all the way.

Cuddling and kissing are not off the table yet. But considering she's nervous kissing, the most they'd be doing with any semblance of comfort is a cuddle after she gets dressed.

Which is frustrating because most Japanese romance series doesn't distinguish between having a intimate moment as a couple and having sex for procreation. It's either kiss then fuck for kids or none at all.

What a bizarre take on all of this. I don't get the sense you were taught much of anything useful about sex, and relationships. You don't have sex (I.e. do sexual stuff) until marriage. It's a lesson that's been passed down for generations now. No, it's not healthy to go through with it when your girl is pushing through the fear to get it done. And yes, you really should think about marriage, children, and the long-term consequences of what the fuck it is you're trying to do at that moment.

 

[IJustReadEverything]

What a bizarre take on all of this. I don't get the sense you were taught much of anything useful about sex, and relationships. You don't have sex (I.e. do sexual stuff) until marriage. It's a lesson that's been passed down for generations now. No, it's not healthy to go through with it when your girl is pushing through the fear to get it done. And yes, you really should think about marriage, children, and the long-term consequences of what the fuck it is you're trying to do at that moment.

I don't get the sense you were taught much of anything useful about sex, and relationships. You don't have sex (I.e. do sexual stuff) until marriage.

Fuck right off LOL. You can totally have sex without marriage. Get that god fearing bible shit outta here.

No, it's not healthy to go through with it when your girl is pushing through the fear to get it done.

I agree with you, if she's scared, don't push.

However, my point is that the two of them were comfortable enough with each other that they could had done intimate things without going all the way. Instead the guy had to go on a tangent about responsibility when it doesn't make much sense since they're not gonna have sex. She's not gonna get pregnant if they just kiss or cuddle. Like, wtf dude. She's your fiancée, you can show her some intimacy.

 

[BuyVelomobiles]

Fuck right off LOL. You can totally have sex without marriage. Get that god fearing bible shit outta here.

You've basically confirmed you've not been taught anything good. Anime depicts healthy(er) relationships. Especially when compared to the dystopian Western hellscape.

I agree with you, if she's scared, don't push.

However, my point is that the two of them were comfortable enough with each other that they could had done intimate things without going all the way.

They're not comfortable. She's scared, and he's keenly aware of the responsibility that comes with sexual activity. I know it's hard, but imagine for a moment that these people aren't 100% desensitized to sex due to porn or promiscuity, and that they have an intact moral compass when it comes to sexual activity.

Instead the guy had to go on a tangent about responsibility when it doesn't make much sense since they're not gonna have sex.

I'm not entirely sure how to explain the responsibility that comes with sex when your premise is that anything but PIV is somehow ok before marriage. This is about more than pregnancy. There's an order to things, and it's definitely not jumping straight into sexual activity a month after meeting someone. You don't jump straight into sexual activity without a serious commitment, and right now, everyone is clear that they just met. He hasn't even really agreed to marry her.

She's not gonna get pregnant if they just kiss or cuddle. Like, wtf dude. She's your fiancée, you can show her some intimacy.

She can barely stand the kiss as is. All they're likely to manage is some light, clothed cuddling.

 

[Dogwelder]

I fucking knew he would weasel his way out some how lmfao.

 

[Dogwelder]

You've basically confirmed you've not been taught anything good. Anime depicts healthy(er) relationships. Especially when compared to the dystopian Western hellscape.

What the fuck are you on about? A lot of anime depicts significantly more unhealthy relationships, Ie. people who are jealous that their significant other is talking to other people or that HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS BAD. I don't know if you are trying to out yourself or what but you definitely give the vibe the last time you saw grass was in an anime...

 

[BuyVelomobiles]

What the fuck are you on about? A lot of anime depicts significantly more unhealthy relationships, Ie. people who are jealous that their significant other is talking to other people or that HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS BAD

Two things:
1) You're looking for "e.g." when citing examples. I.e. is for a rephrasing of the statement being made (e.g. "A heavier-than-air, prop-less flying machine. i.e.: A jet")
2) Both the things you mentioned are part of a healthy relationship. Yes, people get jealous when their partners cozy up to members of the opposite gender; don't do that. And yeah, sex before marriage is bad: It's part of how The West got this way in the first place.

I don't know if you are trying to out yourself or what but you definitely give the vibe the last time you saw grass was in an anime...

How's your relationship with your father?

 

[LoopsAndArcs]

I've read way too many H's where the husband doesn't satisfy the waifu or refuses to and ends up getting NTRed by some fat fuck boss or some jacked delinquent lmfao

 

[Dogwelder]

Two things:
1) You're looking for "e.g." when citing examples. I.e. is for a rephrasing of the statement being made (e.g. "A heavier-than-air, prop-less flying machine. i.e.: A jet")
2) Both the things you mentioned are part of a healthy relationship. Yes, people get jealous when their partners cozy up to members of the opposite gender; don't do that. And yeah, sex before marriage is bad: It's part of how The West got this way in the first place.

How's your relationship with your father?

yeah my I made a little mistake in the beginning there but let me say this: I didn't mention the opposite sex I said talking to other people as in at all. 2: give me one good reason sex before marriage is bad because there is literally nothing backing up that its "unhealthy" lol and also hows the relationship with my father? I don't even know what you're getting at? I mean if you have gone outside like at all in the past decade you would probably understand the world a bit better buddy.

 

[BuyVelomobiles]

give me one good reason sex before marriage is bad

There are plenty. But if you want just the one, it's that women don't get any commitment for sleeping with men before marriage, by definition. Guess what women are complaining about. Hint: "IM TIRED OF PLAYING GAMES. SWIPE RIGHT IF YOUR NOT SERIOUS"

hows the relationship with my father? I don't even know what you're getting at?

I'm asking how you get along with your dad. The fact that you're ignoring the question doesn't suggest you get along well.

I mean if you have gone outside like at all in the past decade you would probably understand the world a bit better buddy.

That came out of left field. We've known these things for generations. You might be too young to remember this, but back in the day, even smartass teenagers knew all of this and tried to use their dicks/pussies to think of loopholes; very deliberately ignoring the lesson they're being taught to, just like you, insist that as long as it's not PIV, it's fine.

P.S.:

yeah my I made a little mistake in the beginning there but let me say this: I didn't mention the opposite sex I said talking to other people as in at all.

No anime/manga has ever had anyone get mad just because their love interest is just talking to other people in general outside of the Yandere sphere. And if you think those are supposed to be healthy relationships, you've misunderstood the etymology of the word "Yandere".

 

[Derksy]

Talk about a wasted opportunity...
He's talking like the nervousness and anxiety will just disappear if you do it later. They won't.
Even after having a lot of partners the first few times with someone new is a bit awkward.

 

[Angelonius]

He needs to brace himself, for she shall ride on his peepee and make entire hordes of babies with him!

 

[custynee]

 

[Inquisitor_Zelifiel]

Ah, a classic "don't rush thing". Its not that bad don't get me wrong but i pretty bored of this now, can't say I'm unexpected for this like I'm sure everyone saw this mile away

 

[Kippithekappamancer]

This is a perfect set up for NTR, just saying.

 

[anirudhsharma]

I have a sneaking suspicion that it's something similar to what was in Mahiru's room in Otonari Tenshi, but probably greater in scale due to the tonal difference in the manga. Or it could be the last boyfriend's mummified corpse. Guess we'll have to wait and see.

Edited: Fucking autocorrect.

can you tell me which chapter is this?

 

[InsidiousIntent]

can you tell me which chapter is this?

Can you be a little more specific? I assume you're talking about Otonari, but LN manga or anime?