I do feel bad for Naruse because he gets more/lot of hate and no sympathy just because he's guy. (+ Has this kind of personality)
We did see how readers reacted towards the Yuna thing, while they are ok with Yuki and Hakamada just because she's girl - they don't careless that much.
Yuki keeps talking and blush over Hakamada's flirts even though that can hurt Naruse. Yet, fans always ignore and belittle that, they'd even hate on Naruse instead - as immature and possessive.
No one says that can hurt Naruse, or is disrespectful to him.
Naruse had to only give his ex a shoulder to cry on, and many were: "poor Yuki. I feel bad for her. Jerk Naruse. I can't accept this man. Don't let other girls touch you. Don't touch girls. Yuki should get mad at him. No girl accept this"
It's like that, when Yuki gets jealous, fans: "ah, poor her. She's hurt" , when Naruse gets jealous: "Oh, he's so immature and possessive".
So as a resume when Naruse gets jealous, he's the bad guy. When Yuki gets jealoue, Naruse is the bad guy as well.
Most those who call Naruse possessive every time he gets jealous, don't even know what it really means. They just learned it from internet.
I mean, they keep saying he's possessive yet can't give even one example about that, I mean, what did Yuki even stop or compromise because of his so-called possessiveness? Nothing. (He even gave he the address himself to go to his love rival last time)
I mean, there is normal jealousy too. It's silly how they call him possssive and immature every time he gets jealous. Lol. Like, he never had the right/or that situation wouldn't make anyone feel jealous, when it actually would.
Now I understand them, fans want/expect Naruse to be perfect/not human, "can't/don't get hurt, don't get jealous, don't get mad, don't feel inferior, don't feel insecure.." , while they're ok with Yuki. Like, is Yuki an overthinking person? Insecure person? Unconfident? So closed up? Rude (yells at) with him? Well, those are not bad, it's normal.
- For example, Yuki gets jealoue "Oh, poor her, of course she has the right to feel jealous and get mad at him in this situation"
- Naruse gets jealous, "Omg, he's so immature and possessive, he shouldn't have gotten jealous over this" , example - when he got jealous/mad on his birthday, they made it a big deal, all called him, immature, possessive and unappreciative. Lol. Ok, let's imagine if Naruse accepted/went whole day with his ex or a girl who has feelings for him and done many stuff to him, to buy Yuki's BD's gift? Won't that make her jealoue, mad and hurt? Wouldn't she fight with him? Or if that happens with you/your BF, would you be ok? No. (And let's not mentioned that jerk Hakamada did really declare her love for her again there and dared to day it was like a date, and what did Yuki do? Blushed over that. Huh)
Also when Naruse feels inferior or insecure, "Omg, he's so immature, when will he stop with his insecurities?" , Yuki gets insecure all the time/many times, "Oh, poor her. It's normal to feel insecure."
And etc. They always switch what Naruse does into a bad thing even though they know it's not his intention.They always normalise, overlook and belittle Yuki's flaws/bad points while make Naruse's a big deal.
Idk if it's because they except a lot from Naruse or they just hate him.
But I'm different, I'm fair with both of them. I always understand them, I never thought bad of them when they mistake/have a flaw. Yeah, they mistake but it doesn't make them bad. Like, when Yuki gets jealoue/mad, I'd give her right, like it's normal. And Naruse too. I won't be like "ah, he's immature, possessive, overly jealous, controlled, unhealthy bf, she should dump him.." lol, Oh God.
And I swear, if it's reversed, If Naruse heard that Yuki hugged a guy and then angrily and doubtfully talked with her like she did here. Yuki'd get mad and fight him. And no one would say "she didn't have to fight him" like they say with Naruse. (Like in his bday - she got mad and fight with him)
They'd say: "he's just so immature and possessive. He should trust Yuki. And Yuki didn't do anything wrong, she was just being decent."
Just last time, Hakamada was going to kiss her but what did she do after? She blushed at him and said "see ya at school" and thought "oh, even if he does that, I still want to support him". yet People now act like Naruse did such an awful thing to her and he always hurts her, when she never did/does? Please calm down and be fair for both of them.