Actually, from your earlier comments I feel like you're the one with the strongest opinionsI understand that my previous response might not have met your expectations, and it seems we have significantly different perspectives on this topic. It's important to recognize that discussions about relationships and personal choices can evoke strong opinions, given their deeply personal nature.
The language and concepts you're using suggest a deep-seated concern about certain values and beliefs. While it's clear we might not agree on these points, I believe there's value in trying to understand where our views diverge and exploring the reasons behind our differing perspectives.
I'm open to hearing more about your concerns and the reasons you feel strongly about this issue. It's through open and respectful dialogue that we can hope to understand each other better, even if we don't ultimately change our views. If you're willing, I'd like to continue this conversation with the aim of gaining a clearer understanding of each other's perspectives, without resorting to labels or assumptions.
It's societal norms/pressures that make one feel different from the other. Otherwise there's no inherent difference between the two.There's plenty wrong with the first one. It's why we're instinctively repulsed by it.
Fun fact, human anatomy (specifically penis shape) suggests that we evolved to compete between males for the same female (as in, one female has sex with multiple men, and the contest is to see whose sperm makes it). I won't go into the exact details here, but there are some videos of the topic on YouTube.