Dex-chan lover
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- Feb 14, 2019
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It's... Kind of sadly realistic?I know, i know the problem i have is that in those comics CPS is never even considered as an actual option even as the final nuclear one.
People in the victim position tend to avoid rocking the boat. "Things can still go back to what they were before", "it will tear the family down", "my siblings and I will be separated", and a slew of other things.
It doesn't help that, in a lot of cases, child protective services are laughably bad at their job. I can take myself, living in France, as an exemple. My mother is the one who called CPS on herself, when she realized some things. Notably that her abuse was, in fact, abuse.
She got away with a slap on the wrist, and no action taken, at all. Her behavior never changed.
Beyond that, there's also the fact that in some cases, being under protective services' custody, especially if there's no family that can take you in, is its own hell in itself. Abuse between the children, abusive caretakers, so on and so forth... Sometimes they're an exaggerated minority, but shock stories work particularly well as a deterrent.
Finally, there's also the victim mentality of "nothing will change", and the phenomenon where you grow so used to abuse that it becomes your "normal" and "comfortable zone", is very much a thing.
Overall, even with effective CPS existence, it's just... really hard for victims to come forward. And more often than not, people who witness the abuse thend to just be silent bystanders.