@SunSun What you are talking about happened away after this stage, to this stage they were going fine and it only happened because of the text.
You are kidding yourself if you think its fine for your husband to get a text at 2 am in morning talking about the time in the hotel yesterday. That is proof he was with a female in a hotel and further yet he wont even explain what it was about.
If it was your wife it would be 100% suspicious. "Oh yea so ur getting a text at 2 am from a guy thanking you for what you guys did in a hotel yesterday? oh you wont tell me what it was about,, thats all fine no worries" yea right!!! it would never happen in real life unless you dont love your husband/wife and only in it for sex.
@Tearsax i am 100% with you on this.