To understand if something is gay, one must first be acquainted with the concept of quantum mechanics. For us men, liking another male is considered to be gay. Traps however, look like females when they are clothed, only when they are naked are we able to determine their sex from their genitalia. By applying quantum mechanics, we can come to the conclusion that if you do not see the penis, then the penis exists in a state of both existence and non-existence. Therefore, as long as you don't see the peen, it's not gay.