@PsychoJing I don't think anyone could disagree with using the term molest to describe their challenges.
Words can have pretty broad definitions but in this case, let's look at Merriam-websters primary definitions:
"to annoy, disturb, or persecute especially with hostile intent or injurious effect" & "to make annoying sexual advances"
I can confidently say if you are attempting to make anyone involuntarily moan through sexual contact it would be considered molestation.