Gal Yome no Himitsu - Ch. 39

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Damn this brought back some bad memories. My highschool girlfriend was like that. I got to hold hands with her like 2x in the 8 months we dated...
 
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Honestly, if my WIFE even once rejected a mere kiss or even holding hands, I think I would check out the relationship soon after... luckily, this is a romance manga and the realist BS has no place here !! TEACH AWAY, BRO !!!
 
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Honestly, if my WIFE even once rejected a mere kiss or even holding hands, I honestly think I would check out the relationship soon after... luckily, this is a romance manga and the realist BS has no place here !! TEACH AWAY, BRO !!!
Old man married over thirty years, checking in.

There are dozens of reasons, if not hundreds, why my wife has done this over the years. Fortunately, I learned pretty quick that most of them relate to, (a) something I did and didn't realize yet, or (b) feminine biology. Nature really did women dirty with their frequent health issues.

She's also embarrassed with public hand holding. I'm not kidding.
 
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Old man married over thirty years, checking in.

There are dozens of reasons, if not hundreds, why my wife has done this over the years. Fortunately, I learned pretty quick that most of them relate to, (a) something I did and didn't realize yet, or (b) feminine biology. Nature really did women dirty with their frequent health issues.

She's also embarrassed with public hand holding. I'm not kidding.
Had she ever told you why she behaved like that to you at some point? Or does she just add that into her 'list' to use against you later?
 
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Had she ever told you why she behaved like that to you at some point? Or does she just add that into her 'list' to use against you later?
Eventually, yes. And she doesn't hold any grudge beyond the current one. Don't mistake what I'm talking about for anything long term. These are just short term miscommunications we're talking about.

A long time ago, I realized she's not withholding any information. I just need to catch on the first time (which usually happens when I'm being too dense to notice). Once I notice what's going on, we straighten it out.

Basically, it's just a matter of, something that seemed like an off-hand comment was really, really important. Or I should have remembered something she said in the past.

Men and women just have very different communication protocols.
 
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Eventually, yes. And she doesn't hold any grudge beyond the current one. Don't mistake what I'm talking about for anything long term. These are just short term miscommunications we're talking about.

A long time ago, I realized she's not withholding any information. I just need to catch on the first time (which usually happens when I'm being too dense to notice). Once I notice what's going on, we straighten it out.

Basically, it's just a matter of, something that seemed like an off-hand comment was really, really important. Or I should have remembered something she said in the past.

Men and women just have very different communication protocols.
I definitely understand men and women perceiving communication differently is part of biology. From what you're saying, though, it still sounds like she's holding you to your mistake until you 'figure it out yourself', which I tend to hear or read about a lot in relationships, and that goes for both short and long term spats.

Also, women tend to hold onto these sorts of grudges, big or small, for longer and more often than men would think, at least in these current times.

If your relationship with her is still healthy, more power to you, I'm just going off of what you told me and how I, myself, tend to be more dense and closed-off from the deeper meaning of what other people are saying or behaving. Maybe that shows more how unready I am for a committed relationship, myself, if I can't adapt myself like you have for 30 years in yours, which is very impressive in itself.
 

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