Literally his first instinct is
"I cut off all communication with you, without notice or warning, for a month; why is that a big deal?"
WTF, dude; you're a shit person if you think that's normal.
It shows you don't consider that person to be a person; they don't have feelings, rights, or a daily life other than interaction with you.
They're nothing more than a tool for you to talk to; and that's clinically sociopathic.
Damn, son...