@Oeconomist
If you take being pedantic as being insulting, then that's your prerogative, but how you present yourself leads to me perceiving you as such.
You say objectively she was distinct, while I say that is just how you saw her. She was just like her brother/step-brother and his brother. Arguably not as able or capable as either of them. You
subjectively see her as distinct. Why I don't know, but pretending it is objective doesn't make it so. Your views are not the objective truth, so stop acting like they are.
Her being boring to me is informed by her not being distinct or interesting to me, and I will not see what isn't there. You seeing something that isn't there doesn't make it real. Though I guess subjective realities are a thing, so that could be wrong.
“I like the flavor” and “there is a flavor” are claims of a fundamentally different type.