Hiiragi-san Is a Little Careless - Vol. 5 Ch. 54

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Wow, being a teenager and not having any libido, I can’t imagine it at all. He’s free from lust but can’t understand what everyone else thinks is normal… at least he won’t waste time masturbating, he can study 10 times more than the average teenager boy I guess :dogewow:
Also glasses girl is right, he doesn’t have to decide for her, but i don’t think she gets what it means to be like him. Anyway it’s a rather heavy subject, I hope they handle it nicely
Thanks for the translation
 
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So he's ace but is he aromantic? Let's see how the author handles it. Hopefully it won't be him being "broken down" into accepting her. Thanks for the chapter!!!
 
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I mean, it’s understandable why he feels like he would let his partner down if he isn’t really comfortable with being intimate. Like it or not, intimacy is an important aspect of a relationship for most people

I’m not saying it’s impossible to be in a relationship because of it, just that it’s a lot harder to find someone who is okay with it. Sure, at first, it might seem like an easy compromise, but eventually, it’ll affect some people, especially teens

It won’t hurt to try being in a relationship, but by the end, if it does become a problem, it’ll hurt like absolute hell because you’ll blame yourself for hurting someone really important to you, even if it’s something you don’t have much control over

Though, it's fair to say these conclusions come from insecurity, and it can seem pretty patronizing when you're just deciding the thoughts and feelings of the other person completely on your own

In the end, it really is all about communication in these types of scenarios, so if they do end up together, I hope the author is able to handle it properly
 
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I'm taking psychic damage from Kurashiki. I'm a sex repulsed ace and used to think that meant that I just couldn't date because they'd probably be allo and would suffer dating me. But that view is narrow and constricting. Suffocatingly so. Now I just face it head on, explain that I may never be sexually attracted to them and if that's a deal breaker then that's that. But surprisingly, some allo people are okay with that, you just gotta communicate instead of shutting out the world.
 
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The thing though is that he assumes for her that she will get disappointed.
And? If she isn’t disappointed… he has to start dating her? I only take issue with her calling him Patronizing? No he was explaining. And if her response is “I don’t care” or she still wants to date, who cares what she thinks at all in anyway after being clearly Rejected.
 
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Even if he is presuming that dating her out of pity would end up hurting her, it's still 100% his choice.
 
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I like p.2. Boys.
Sen has a "Kotori support" band. Funny, given she is his girlfriend.

Still, it kinda rubs me the wrong way that they all publicly discuss whether these two "did it". Pretty rude intrusion into others' privacy, no?
 
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And? If she isn’t disappointed… he has to start dating her? I only take issue with her calling him Patronizing? No he was explaining. And if her response is “I don’t care” or she still wants to date, who cares what she thinks at all in anyway after being clearly Rejected.
No, she's not gonna be owed anything, it's just about facing the actual girl and not some assumed version of her.
 

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