Hiiragi-san Is a Little Careless - Vol. 5 Ch. 55
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This is about as good a conclusion as we could have gotten. Her feelings are taken seriously, he doesn't get "fixed", all is... reasonably okay!
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Communication wins the day, huzzah! It's a good conclusion that respects both parties' feelings, which is about all you can ask for.
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Wow she really was as Self Absorbed as I feared. Once again, why are you even speaking? Who cares about any of your feelings at this point.
HE SAID NO. “Oh I don’t care how you feel about me! I like you and that’s all that matters”. No that’s all that matters to you selfish b-
HE SAID NO. “Oh I don’t care how you feel about me! I like you and that’s all that matters”. No that’s all that matters to you selfish b-
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You had multiple people correct you on the last chapter's comments and you still don't get it? The point isn't that he rejected her, it's that he arbitrarily, one-sidedly decided that her feelings are a waste because he can't reciprocate them. That's not his place to decide that. She has every right to be pissed. It's one thing for someone to reject you because they don't share your feelings, but it's another for them to completely dismiss your feelings and tell you that those feelings are meaningless.
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Multiple people commented, but they didn’t correct me. They just try to push their own feelings onto me. But I do not place her feelings above his. Gasp. He already rejected her multiple times and she keeps making him go through this in front of everyone. Do you know how much pressure that is? Why is she speaking? Why is she saying anything?
Correct that
I do agree about the pressure as no one is entitled to have their rejection explained. It's even worse for the person in front of their friends. But I do understand that they're teens and they're not always fully mature enough to understand why someone may feel that way. Now if they were adults then yeah I would understand because as an adult they should just take the no and move on.
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She didn't make him explain himself. The group was feeling the awkward atmosphere last chapter, so they had a group meeting where multiple feelings were revealed to multiple parties, then he elaborated on why he rejected her, revealing that he's aromantic and doesn't feel romance the same way most do.
From there, though, he explained that he rejected her, not just because he doesn't reciprocate those romantic feelings, but because if they start dating when he doesn't reciprocate, she'll only get hurt, and it's better for her to disregard those romantic feelings for him.
That's when she snapped and said not to patronize her. He doesn't get to decide that her feelings are a waste or she should disregard them and that she's going to continue loving him even if he can't love her back. After he confirms that, while they're still friends, he's not going to date her, they then confirm and he accepts that she's still going to feel romantic feelings towards him, regardless, and they're not a waste.
She only snapped AFTER he elaborated, which he only did because it was a group sharing session to clear the awkward air.
Also, nobody tried pushing their feelings on to you. In the last chapter, you commented that she should shut up because what he was saying had nothing to do with her. People were correcting you that what he said does have to do with her because he's making assumptions about her feelings, which is unfair to her and she has a right to snap. From there, though, you somehow took their corrections as them arguing that he has to date her because she's not disappointed, which isn't what anyone said. He can still reject her, obviously, and she can and has to accept that, but he has to also accept that she has these feelings and they're valid, regardless of if he's capable of understanding them or not.
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lmao, you are defending him because he's a category to you.
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HE GETS TO DECIDE WHAT HER FEELINGS MEAN TO HIM, NOT HER!!! WHAT ARE YOU EVEN TALKING ABOUT?
I honestly don’t understand how you think.
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You clearly don't want to understand, either. You're just annoyed at her and don't seem to accept any explanation as to why she might have a reason to feel upset.
And it's not about deciding what her feelings mean to him, it's about deciding for her how she will feel. Which is generally disrespectful.
And it's not about deciding what her feelings mean to him, it's about deciding for her how she will feel. Which is generally disrespectful.
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[redacted] but still 🍿🍿🍿
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We know what words mean and have media literacy.
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Yes. He gets to decide what her feelings mean TO HIM. He doesn't get to decide that her feelings are a waste, though. You're saying you'd be fine if someone told you that your feelings are wasteful and you shouldn't have them?
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He 100% can say it’s a waste. As she asked him out. She was rejected. That’s it, move on. Every time you get rejected in life, do you force the woman to tell you the exact reason with details because your FEELINGS are being wasted by them rejecting you?
But wait! Even though you don’t like me, we can still date right! My feelings will be wasted! Gotta keep asking her out over and over in front of everyone cause Can’t Waste all These FEELINGS. You demand a reason! Can’t waste all these feelings right?
Speaking of feelings, Why do you feel this way? I seriously want to know why you put this girl above everyone else?
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Oh my god, ok...
She accepted the rejection 2 chapters ago. Last chapter, he said that he did so because her feelings are a waste. That's when she interjected to say that he doesn't get to decide her feelings for her. She asks again with that clarification this chapter. He rejected her again, now having that understanding. She accepts and makes sure he understands that, even if they don't date, she's still going to have feelings for him, to which he accepts.
It's NOT about dating. Move on from the dating, because that's not what's being talked about. It's about how she's allowed to have feelings for him even if they don't date and he has to accept that and accept that he doesn't get to decide how someone else feels.
I've tried to simplify this as much as possible for you that it has nothing to do with dating anymore. If you can't understand that after this, then don't even bother replying, because I can't simplify it any further.
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