Holiday Love - Fuufukan Renai - Vol. 2 Ch. 18 - If It's Just Once
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Honestly, I've always thought it was a shitty call for her to be like "I'll tell our daughter you ran away, never see her again"
Like bro, you can cut yourself off from your husband. Thats 200% in your rights. But you're not just cutting your husband off from his daughter, you're cutting your DAUGHTER off from her father too. Which is not fair to her, she didn't ask to be brought into this world and didn't have anything to do with the end of your relationship. She has a right to know her father. You sign that contract when you gave birth to her that you will forever be connected with this man in some way, because you cannot just deprive her of her parent for no good reason.
If you're leaving because he abused her or she is at risk of being abused by him, that's one thing. Because you're (rightfully) mad about an affair tho? That doesn't have anything to do with your kid. I don't care how young they are, they will understand eventually what it means that their parents are separated. They will understand why they see each parent on different occasions. It's monumentally better for the child to have 2 parents that are active in their life, even separately active, than to just be cut off from one when it does not have to be that way.
My mom went through something similar. She does not have a good relationship with her mother (my grandma). My grandma didn't even attend my mother's wedding. However when my mom had my sister and I, she set aside her differences with her mother because she didn't want to deprive us from experiencing her brand of "grandmotherhood", so to speak lol. She allowed her to know us and us to know her and we were allowed to come to our own conclusions. If we wanted to talk to grandma, my mom would never say no.
Like bro, you can cut yourself off from your husband. Thats 200% in your rights. But you're not just cutting your husband off from his daughter, you're cutting your DAUGHTER off from her father too. Which is not fair to her, she didn't ask to be brought into this world and didn't have anything to do with the end of your relationship. She has a right to know her father. You sign that contract when you gave birth to her that you will forever be connected with this man in some way, because you cannot just deprive her of her parent for no good reason.
If you're leaving because he abused her or she is at risk of being abused by him, that's one thing. Because you're (rightfully) mad about an affair tho? That doesn't have anything to do with your kid. I don't care how young they are, they will understand eventually what it means that their parents are separated. They will understand why they see each parent on different occasions. It's monumentally better for the child to have 2 parents that are active in their life, even separately active, than to just be cut off from one when it does not have to be that way.
My mom went through something similar. She does not have a good relationship with her mother (my grandma). My grandma didn't even attend my mother's wedding. However when my mom had my sister and I, she set aside her differences with her mother because she didn't want to deprive us from experiencing her brand of "grandmotherhood", so to speak lol. She allowed her to know us and us to know her and we were allowed to come to our own conclusions. If we wanted to talk to grandma, my mom would never say no.
