Yeah, imo the first guy was too forward and too creepy. The first time he touched her was to grab her waist... wtf... Maybe if it was for a picture or if he was someone famous and she was a fan. You need more trust and more romantic interest between the two to just place your hand of someone's waist for a long time. I loved that Charao-kun placed his hand on the dude's leg to tell him, "You are being creepy" xD
Charao-kun touched her in the back for a short time, so place and duration are different. If he had grabbed her waist and she didn't feel disgusted, then it would have been a good sign. For now it's not much... I mean, the first time he did a kabedon on her, he only had his underwear on, so she was pretty confused and maybe a bit disgusted. Now she is just used to Charao-kun.