Ha! Oh well, to each their own. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I actually thought she was 18 when I met her. She is Vietnamese and it is kinda of hard to tell, plus she said she was 18. Went to visit and found out how old she actually was from her mom over dinner. lol, felt like my gut dropped out and almost broke up with her and ran. But thankfully, with a few panicked google searches, found out the US federal AoC is 16 so i was safe. I cared and loved her so decided to try and stick it out. Worked out well so far, barring covid preventing me from traveling to see her last year. Plus, she is traditional Vietnamese, so no sex before marriage. So it is not like we have done anything lewd in this time anyways.