“Actually shocking how cowardly so many people are in this thread”…is what I’d like to say but in reality most people don’t have the stomach to be the bearer of bad news in situations like this, not just because you’ll be the first one to receive the rage and sorrow of the recipient, you’ll be the first one to witness the light in the person’s eyes vanish behind a stream of tears which if you have any heart at all will haunt you for months if not years to come.
do not confuse my words for justification though, the “correct” and “good” thing to do in this situation is to tell her or the authorities the truth and anyone saying otherwise is coping with their own inability to feel uncomfortable in situations they can’t control or feel good about, not everything is about you and not very good deed is going to feel like one in the moment, it might not feel like it afterwards either, if that’s enough to make you question your ethics and decide to be a bystander that’s understandable, but that is cowardice, not virtue