Ijime kara Tasuketa Osananajimi ga Yandere ni naru made - Ch. 13

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Guh, the downfall of every character in fiction, just, not communiticating, at all. This is why I have trained vigorously. So I never embarass myself like these poor fellas.
Like boy, you interuptted her while she was confessing AND HE KNEW IT TOO saw she had a breakdown..... and then whent to check up LATER??? isntead of grabbign her shoulders right then and therere and shouting how much you love her? fool.
 
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If Japanese MC Then deny girlfriend claims until told otherwise...
Stupid as fuck, ain't it. It can't be this bad IRL. Can it?

ChatGPT: do people usually deny dating in japan

Short answer: Yes. Yes it can.

Yes — in Japan, it’s pretty common for people (especially younger ones, students, or celebrities) to deny dating or avoid directly admitting it, even if they are in a relationship. This happens for a few cultural and social reasons:


  • Privacy & Discretion: Japanese culture values modesty and keeping personal matters private. Publicly confirming a relationship can feel like “showing off” or inviting gossip.
  • Social Dynamics: In school or work settings, admitting you’re dating can change how others treat you, sometimes causing awkwardness or jealousy within a group.
  • Group Harmony (和 wa): Being too open about romance can disrupt group balance. People might downplay or deny dating to avoid making others uncomfortable.
  • Entertainment Industry: For idols, actors, or singers, agencies often forbid dating or encourage them to deny rumors, since fans are expected to see them as “available.”
  • Early Stage Relationships: In the beginning, couples often avoid outright saying “we’re dating.” Instead, they might just spend time together and let things naturally be understood, only admitting it once the relationship feels stable.

So yes, denial (or at least avoidance) is normal in Japan, but it’s less about lying and more about maintaining harmony and privacy.

👉 Do you mean ordinary people in Japan, or more like celebrities/idols denying they’re dating?

ChatGPT: ordinary people

Got it — for ordinary people in Japan, yes, they often downplay or even deny dating, especially in the early stages.


Here’s how it usually plays out:


  • Among friends/classmates/coworkers:
    If someone teases “Are you two dating?”, it’s very common to laugh it off with “Chigau, chigau!” (No, no, that’s not it!) — even if they actually are. Admitting it directly can feel embarrassing or attract too much attention.
  • Early stages:
    Instead of saying “we’re dating,” people might just describe the situation as “ii kanji” (a good vibe) or “mada wakaranai” (I don’t know yet). They may only admit to dating once it feels more “official” or stable.
  • Public vs. private:
    Couples often don’t show PDA or talk openly about relationships in group settings. Among close friends, though, they’ll be more honest.
  • Reason behind denial:
    It’s less about dishonesty and more about modesty and avoiding embarrassment or gossip. Being too upfront can feel “un-Japanese” in casual social circles.

So, in short: yes, ordinary Japanese people often deny or dodge the question when asked if they’re dating, at least outside their closest circle.


👉 Do you want me to also explain how this compares to how people in the U.S. or other countries usually handle it?
 

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