Dex-chan lover
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I fluctuate between "Hell is other people" and "variety is the spice of life." Regarding the latter, eating alone at a restaurant bar and maybe talking to the bartender or chef (if you're lucky enough that they put you at the chef's counter) and fellow patrons seated nearby is often a good time, and if it's not at least you probably never have to see them again. The closest way to describe it is probably the concept of 一期一会/ichi-go ichi-e. Some parts of society still frown upon dining alone, but I feel like it gives me time away from work (where the former saying is definitely true) and allows me to drop the façade we keep up in front of others we know.