@comeonnow Yes, but littering is an actual wrong. It makes more work for someone and it dirties the community. But for outsiders to be hurt between something that's happening between 2 people in their relationship is another matter entirely. So what if they misunderstand? She's an outsider. If she were his girlfriend, maybe it'd work. But being bothered by the relationship between 2 people isn't a justified reason to be angry.
Misunderstanding is her own fault and even then, it has nothing to do with her. She is an outsider, no matter what her feelings are. Just because her feelings are hurt doesn't mean she's wronged.
If someone likes your girlfriend, does that mean you have to break up with them to not hurt the other person? No, of course not. Her being hurt doesn't mean she's actually involved. Her feelings are hurt, but she's an outsider. If she misunderstands, it doesn't matter because it's her being bothered by an issued for another person's relationship.
You are saying that involves more than 2 people... but that's not true. She's not a part of it. She just feels hurt. But that is actually just a separate issue and not a wrong towards her. She's bothered by the relationship between her crush and this girl. But it's THEIR relationship, not hers. Her being hurt isn't justified. She wasn't wronged in any way.
Her feeling uncomfortable or misunderstanding is solely her issue and not a problem for others.
Yes, she felt uncomfortable and hurt, but she's not a part of it. She's feeling uncomfortable and hurt due to other people's issues.
All those people who asked her to stop weren't justified. They were outsiders trying to butt into the relationship between 2 people.