@monkey123
I'm gonna ignore the first thing you said for the first part of the reply, because I can't judge if you are serious.
Monster, wingman? Yes and No. As at the end of this chapter we can only assume Kon has been kidnapped.
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@pharoahmutt has kind of stated, it is not the norm that penises make women cum. The reason why the collectivity thinks they do is because... Porn to a certain extent?
We have this kind of weird narrative in which heterosexual sex is centered on pleasing the male. Think about oral sex, for example. The general conception goes something like this: "A submissive woman in her knees pleasing the male genitalia" and you could add that "the roughest, fastest and deepest" are the criteria to judge good oral sex and consecutively good sexual intercourse in general. Even most products related to oral sex are centered in sucking dick. Well. Fuck all that shit. It just makes both men and women lazy on the exploration of pleasuring their own bodies and that's why we say that heterosexual couples don't know how to have good sex.
First. Genitallia are sensible, so maybe gentle most of the time is better. Even when roughness is the right pace.
Second. A lot of the stimulus is psychological. Don't expect your partner to be ready to bang right away even if the mood is right. This goes both ways. To women who expect the man to be rock solid just cause they naked and to men who want to stick it in as soon as they can and put too much concentration on making women genitalia wet.
Third. Again, stop obssesing with genitalia. There's more to a partner's body than that. Sex is much more that just "cum and go".
"Sex is an act that exists in the ambiguous place between what's dirty and what's pure. One's able to explore the parts of the body that nobody else sees, and to taste and smell others inherent existence. It is also accepting one's partner as a whole, making their imperfections perfect."
(Disclaimer, this only applies to sex under healthy conditions)
So, please explore more. Be creative. And then talk about it so next time is even better.
That's what same sex couples do and the reason they say they fuck better.
Here's a story I find funny:
Nympho friend. Slept with a foreign girl one time. She's scared of doing it again because it felt way too good for her. Asked what's wrong with that. She said that she was afraid she won't be able to sleep with men ever again if she kept at it.
Weird suggestion, just as an example. Liquid Caramell is more delicious when it's hot and it's easy to make. Use that knowledge however you feel to.
There's something that porn is really good at tho. Getting to know your own fetishes.
@Pachka84
Lol. That looks... Interesting. Pass the sauce, pretty please.
@Lyendith
Yo, your tag's wrong yo.
But I do agree that what gay communities are looking for is not statistical normality but just social acceptance. Normality on the norm/law it's just means to an end. And humans in general value the idea of being part of the status-quo way too much.
There's nothing inherently bad with not being "normal". Bad it's fucked up how far humans would go if you are not.