@lilliwyt
Oh. I have to admit that everything I said is based on kind of a constant weird "self-education" that includes speedrunning through articles and essays, talking to friends and family and consulting sexologists/psychologists. So, yeah. "Educated" opinion based on some study. But opinion nevertheless.
That said, there's definitely lots of hetero couples that are good at it even if it seemed like I stated that there were not!
Wait. I actually did? Should've added a little more nuance on there.
Anyway. If it makes sense to even correct myself now, I'll do it. Is not that hetero sexual couples in general are bad at it... Is just that also a lot of them have some of the misconceptions I numbered. And I'm not a fan of people who aren't altruistic (Here hoping Zaratustra doesn't kill me) enough to do all they can to pleasure their partner, even if that means a little bit of waiting. And I think sexual ed. goes a long way to fix that. But when sex ed. is taught, normally they only would go as far as the reproduction, leaving the rest of it for the media to teach and that's a damn shame. Also, I'm aware that the youth is way more curious about all this and a lot of taboos have been broken because of it.
Also gotta admit that using the hetero vs homo thing wasn't beneficial to the thesis either. But I have for certain read studies about this. And the main issue with this is that perception varies: What heterosexual couples consider "good sex" may be different to what a homosexual would think. And from what I can remember, (Shit, this is gonna sound way too controversial, I'm sorry) heterosexuals (Specially women) tend to conform with less because of the stuff that I talked about on my last reply. Is all about expectations vs "reality"
Thanks for taking my rant seriously and for the feedback!
Feel free to destroy me if you want to tho. As I can't look up for evidence right now.
I can't believe all of this started because I said that the MCs on this manga, under my conceptions of what sex means to me, had indeed fucked. Thank you
@monkey123
@pharoahmutt I'm gonna add that I never talked about sex as a reproduction act. That's another topic, and as you said we are overpopulated anyway. Some of us aren't even planning to even have kids because of it. I agree with everything else you said too.
edit: lol, i hope you guys didn't actually mute this.