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No. This is the norm. It's only recently that people have started insisting that you can just do whatever, whenever, and with whoever, and if your supposed lover/spouse has a problem, he can go fuck himself. The fact is that once you're in a serious relationship, you don't belong to yourself. And part of what that means is you're no longer allowed to entertain advances from other people, or even give the appearance that you are. He has a problem with this. Anyone would have known that ahead of time. If she cares about him, his feelings matter more than talking to some random dickhead.Well you seem like a perfectly paranoid yandere, but I can respect that. At least you don't have double standards so that's cool, I suppose everyone goes about relationships in a different way? I don't have any friends (of the opposite gender at least)so I guess it wouldn't be too hard to have a girlfriend right? Haha.
I mean, think about it. What's more important? Not hurting your wife's feelings, or talking about the weather with a coworker? Realistically, there's no winning scenario here because they're either completely platonic, and not talking about anything important, while the boy here is seething in pure jealousy- or they're getting closer to each other and risking an affair forming... while the boy here is seething in pure jealousy.
The relationship is about setting terms for the marriage. If you don't like the terms, then break up. His terms are "I don't like you talking to other guys". The response isn't "Don't worry about it
She was having a full conversation with the guy, and apparently enjoying herself. She even had a slight blush at the time. All while outright telling him she'll contact him. She's not exactly the indirect type either. So if she didn't want to, I doubt she'd sit around shooting the shit with him like that, much less agree to contact him after obviously having exchanged contact info.but one thing to think about is that I'm pretty sure the girlfriend never even responded to the dude asking about stuff, or at least her response wasn't shown. She might have even turned him down.