Kimi wa Ore no Yasashikunai Haru - Ch. 28

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It seems everyone missed my joke even though I agree with the aro/ace comments. You can't fumble what you never had to begin with. Much like that time in high school where I liked that lesbian girl, I also stood no chance but we stayed friends. Sometimes you have to laugh at the irony of it all.
 
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Why is everyone saying this she’s just not attracted to him how is that queer I think you guys are just lonley man or like chemically fuckef cause of diet
Because she said "Why can't I fall in love....with such a good person ?" Ujioka was the only person who fully supported her and enjoyed her company, so she saying she only feels platonic love after all that ,, she shows she cares a lot about him like she faked loving him for a while and put full effort in giving him the dating experience he desired,Yeah 100% asexual and aromantic it's a strong possibility , why I can be so certain because I'm one and I asked myself that same question.also I've read the final chapter and know this isn't a phase or just she's not feeling it she literally says "That part of my heart that responds to such expectations, it seems I don't have it." when a coworker tries to get closer to her with romantic intent,she also ponders saying "Do I have to kill my soul just to fit into society?"so yeah she's aroace
 
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"Yo could I get a slice-of-life manga?"

"One slice-of-life manga coming up!"

"And hold the romance."

"H-hold the romance?"
 
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I had big suspicions this is what was happening. I dated an Aro/Ace person for 4 years. I asked them if they were very early in the relationship (and told them what it was, they were not aware)… and they denied it. For 3 years. In the end, they realized I was right, and was forcing themself to fit what their family was expecting of them. We still friends now. TBF, our couple was… more like two good friends doing friends stuff all the time. I adapted to their speed, and mostly played board games and watching anime with them. XD

He was lucky that she was more self aware than in my case, THEIR case would have been much more hurtful if it stretched long term.
 
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I had big suspicions this is what was happening. I dated an Aro/Ace person for 4 years. I asked them if they were very early in the relationship (and told them what it was, they were not aware)… and they denied it. For 3 years. In the end, they realized I was right, and was forcing themself to fit what their family was expecting of them. We still friends now. TBF, our couple was… more like two good friends doing friends stuff all the time. I adapted to their speed, and mostly played board games and watching anime with them. XD

He was lucky that she was more self aware than in my case, THEIR case would have been much more hurtful if it stretched long term.
See I'm not so sure that she's aro/ace but more that she doesn't have much confidence in herself and/or thinks that she's not good enough to date someone who she sees as nice/wholesome. It could just be a a self-confidence thing. The whole story has been about two loners who people don't understand being ostracized and them trying to find their place in society.
 

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