i kinda have the same experience when i tried road trip (on motorbike) for the first time. stopped a bit too long at the resting area so i couldn't spend enough time at the destination
No, they aren’t ‘married’ to each other. Tohru and Elma like eachother mutually, but Elma desires friendship over romance, leaving Tohru with Kobayashi. Tohru seems to prioritize Kobayashi and desires her for herself.