Not the absolute worst hand. At any time when he felt overwhelmed he could have asked for help from his amazing family. Instead he took his frustrations out on his child.Not trying to justify his actions, but he and Chika were dealt the WORST hand. It would be one thing if the mother died, but she LEFT. I can hate the man for breaking his child, but at the same time, if you hated him you got to abhor the mom for being the one that set the first crack for both.
Some people are like that, for whatever reason, pride, perfectionism, not wanting to bother others, etc.Not the absolute worst hand. At any time when he felt overwhelmed he could have asked for help from his amazing family. Instead he took his frustrations out on his child.
Holy fuck, please never be a parent then. How can you "respect" him being willing to accept his mistakes? This isn't a minor mistake where that absolves him. This just makes him shittier for never having apologized (and having done it in the first place considering even he knows how shitty it was).Dude was absolutely ready to catch some hands for being a fuckup of a dad. I can respect that.
I can't imagine I would do better given the situation.
Have you considered that maybe I don't plan on having kids, you pretentious sycophantic fuck?Holy fuck, please never be a parent then. How can you "respect" him being willing to accept his mistakes? This isn't a minor mistake where that absolves him. This just makes him shittier for never having apologized (and having done it in the first place considering even he knows how shitty it was).
I get that life gets tough at times, but if this is how you retaliate, please never have children. You don't deserve to.
He should've lashed out on his boss.
I truly hope Chika never makes up with him because this guy is just a negative.
My bad, I might have been out of line there. Though I wasn't fighting for a wrong cause. Also, I never said "I hope". I made a request, because you literally defended child abuse and abandonment.Have you considered that maybe I don't plan on having kids, you pretentious sycophantic fuck?
I don't think anyone has even considered that this isn't an awful thing to do, but just mild relief that the father isn't a complete sack of shit. But no, you decide to come after me personally and attack my personal character.
Did that make you feel better attacking some random stranger on the internet? Did you get your fucking karma points? Are your balls firmly supported on your fucking high horse.
And before you fucking backpedal and go it's not that serious "I hope you never have kids." Is a fundamentally hostile statement no matter the context and I suggest you reevaluate how you treat others around you if you consider this in any sense that this is proper internet etiquette and basic human decency.
You want to know you how you could have phrased that without coming off as a massive fucking tool and the most pustulent of bell ends?
"I think that what he did to Chika was really atrocious, and I can't really relate to that and find it really uncomfortable."
Think before you fucking speak you absolutely Phineas Gage of a leather boot.
My bad, I might have been out of line there. Though I wasn't fighting for a wrong cause. Also, I never said "I hope". I made a request, because you literally defended child abuse and abandonment.
Maybe I did misunderstand. If you don't empathize with his dad, I take everything back.Fucking where.
How does "I can respect a man for owning up to his mistakes and acknowledging that likely would not have done better in his situation." become "defending child abuse and abandonment" beyond you taking my statement in the worst faith fucking possible.
Did you fucking learn nothing from my fucking tirade at you.
Did you even stop to consider that you might have misinterpreted the message.
So if I shared any empathy for a man who was at the end of his rope, you won't take it back is what you're saying.Maybe I did misunderstand. If you don't empathize with his dad, I take everything back.