I keep wondering how the hell his life went so far downhill that AT 24 YEARS OF AGE he feels old and burned out despite having a stable job and an education, so far that someone within the bounds of acceptability in his culture declaring her love for him makes him like...this.Cute and all but jeez. Just do it. Any girl willing to spoil you like she does is wife material. Girl literally asked for marriage when you guys reunited. Nothing is stopping this relationship for working other than your own stupidity.