@Aniryu oh I didn't take any offense
was just hoping that if some didn't realize that some of us guys are saying things in a way that's not trying to make you seem like you need to do anything, just a sincere "want you to be happy" thing
But, ya, wouldn't doubt me that many guys prolly do mean it in other stupid ways like "you'd look better if you smiled" which, ya, that way comes off incredibly "the fuck, mate? that's shallow"