Alcohol and a lighter are still plenty dangerous, particularly if it soaks into clothing and hair (even more so with really long hair like Song Li's) - she's lucky the attacker doesn't seem to have been trying to cause serious physical injury.
I wish there was an island or something where queer ppl could all go and live and not have to see or interact with cis straights
I know that's mostly joking, but consider the plight of all the queer children born in cis het families in that kind of world . . .
The kind of bigotry that Song Li and Hu LuoLuo have to deal with is very real, but it's also something that can be fought against pretty effectively - not
easily or
quickly, but with a lot of success over time. It
is possible to make a world where no one cares if you're queer or straight or ace or trans or whatever, and while I sympathise with your feelings, I'd much rather fight to build
that world.