@SirAllen For me, it’s a constant reminder of huge difference between Japanese and American culture. The idea of social standing is so integral to the way that the Japanese view the world, that it permeates literally every aspect of their language. There are honorifics that acknowledge whether your relationship with someone is personal or professional, whether they’re older or younger, whether they’re a casual friend or a polite stranger. Every time they address one another, the honorifics they use reaffirm “I understand your social station and my relation to it.” Removing those honorifics is deeply personal, because it implies that you no longer separated by that all-encompassing social construct.
On the flip side, Americans exist in a culture that started in rebellion of that hierarchy, so much so that it’s written in our founding documents. “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.” There are certainly degrees of social respect, but it’s not hard-coded into the language, and in most cases we operate under the idea that “respect must be earned.” Plus, it’s literally written in our laws that we don’t acknowledge any conferred titles (like that of nobility). So, yeah, it’s always going to be a bit different for us.