Same here. Wish someone knocked some sense to himMy sincerest wish for this series is that the husband gets horribly injured and that the FL leaves him to be treated exactly the way he treated his wounded soldiers until he begs...
Like "oh, sorry? I thought you wanted to be left to rot since we shouldn't bother trying to heal the severely injured and only focus on those who are still able-bodied? Or is it different when you're the one who's actually experiencing this suffering?"
Just give him a heaping helping of his own medicine so he can get his head out his ass. It's the least he deserves.