This is toxic masculinity.
Masculinity? Fine. Good. Not for me (lesbian) but I do like Men Men in Manga.
"Dude, let me feel your muscles and jack you off. No homo." and treating women like he does... He doesn't even think of her face. She's just a source of comfort. Get a cat.
There's nothing more masculine than a gay guy who's ok with his gayness. Just exuding MAN at the world to attract men who like that.
Well, that's clearly not the only kind of gay man (mama here is onee. A particular subset of effeminate) but you know what I mean!
I've confused myself actually.
I don't actually understand men. That's why I like BL. Nice boys, away from women.