This dude, if he really loved her then he would have notified her but no he didn’t. She’s smart in telling him she won’t wait for him, if he easily married after she waited the first time, he can do it again. Also like she said, in those 5 years he could get concubines if he was “pressured” into it and that shit don’t fly w/ her. He might be king or emperor but he doesn’t have any means of real power to me. She should just get her shit in order and move on to better men lol