Mistake - Ch. 3

[MangaDex]

 

[starburst98]

.... okay how the hell did they get mistaken? Also even if it is awkward they can go to a gynocologist and they can confirm a girl did not have sex.

 

[emMeBi86]

Thanks for the explanations at the end, they help to make the situation more understandable (in other places a situation like this would have ended almost without issues)

 

[breizh]

@starburst98 There is no sure fire way to know if a girl is a virgin or not.

 

[starburst98]

@breizh hymens are a thing, while that isn't always 100% if it is thick enough it basically is. Because it is impossible for anything to have gotten in there without breaking it.

 

[xsweetmex]

Or they could...u know....just ask?

 

[Purplelibraryguy]

@starburst98 There is actually in some places plastic surgery for hymens on the down-low.

 

[missmercurial]

@starburst98
"hymens" are a ring of flexible tissue, they cannot "break." with most women, if they've been active and if they're well aroused for their first penetrative experience, there shouldn't be any tears/"breaks" in the tissue. that's why a virgin can still use tampons.

 

[gomichandesu]

@starburst98 Girls actually can be born without a hymen, and they can "break" or tear due to a lot of non sexual activities. Much like the rest of the genitalia, they can vary in appearance as well. Some are thin to begin with, so the "thickness" of it does not matter. It also changes appearance with age. Gynecologists are also not specifically trained to identify anything based on the appearance of a hymen.
might help dispell some of the myths we're accustom to when it comes to hymens and "virginity"
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6547601/

 

[starburst98]

I am saying, in the specific case, the presence of a hymen should cause the parents to believe the girl did not have sex. It does not matter if it is a myth because they probably believe the myth.

 

[nikonekonya]

@starburst98 that is not how hymens work at all. They do not "break", they stretch out of the way (usually permanently) when something is inserted or rubbed the "right" way. Many women don't even have visible ones. It's extremely common for women to have theirs "break" as you say just by doing regular normal things (like riding a bike).

There is no way to confirm if someone is a virgin, regardless of their gender or how their genitals look.

 

[starburst98]

@nikonekonya
Let me break it down more

Parents believe in hymen myth
Girl plays that card and gynecologist says she has hers still
Parents now believe she must still be a virgin.

 

[Coconut_Shrimp]

Number 3 of that translator's now applies to just about everywhere with social media. People are PDQ to spread misinformation and untrue gossip of it'll get them popular.

 

[laiseran]

I don't live in South East Asia but uh I really don't know anyone here who would "show oof their 'score' and expect praise for it" like what

Sounds like exaggerations go both ways

 

[wiseeu]

Wow what fucking cunts

 

[Amaya19]

Huh so was this planned???