Urgh, she’s a bit...I want to slap her to wake her up. Like, I’m dumbfounded that she thinks highly of the Bow God, she sees how much he cares for her and the others. So in general, he is a good man. Considering his actions and personality, he will never see her as a tool to "only purify" him. He never thought of that about any of his wives.
But I’m glad she finally admits she wants him for herself and begins to think of a how.