Fed-Kun's army
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- Sep 3, 2019
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@TanithG
Yes there are various reasons as to why Miya would be upset over his father's actions, and rightly so. But not even taking a second to consider why your father made such decisions? and just focusing on how certain actions affects your own feelings and no one else? now that's unfair, and selfish. Just merely listening to your dad is something she is very much capable of doing, you don't need to be older to do that much. At least Kousuke is trying to rectify what he did wrong before and does what he believes is best for Miya, and at times messing up, but TRYING nonetheless. The moment Kousuke suggests something that doesnt fit with Miya at all, she immediately throws a fit and does something damaging, when she is very much capable of just talking it out with her father, until they reach a point where they're able to make the best decision for the mean time (hence why i called her a cunt, since she is not being compassionate and giving his old man a chance at all). I mean you're his daughter, at least make the effort to be the ear that listens to his woes, but she didn't. Instead, Koto became that ear.
@VermillionOcean
No I am not saying his actions are excusable (refer to my previous post "Yes, i'm very much aware that his actions are not without repercussions or not reprehensible to some degree"), just not surprising after what everyone is putting him through. Yes his actions are condemnable, but they're not as severe as rape or murder now are they? Whether a certain act is unethical, there will always be a solid ground as to why that person did what they did. Some can be forgiven and deserves a shot at being vindicated, others are just illogical to even be considered to be pardoned. We saw what happened to Kousuke, yes what he did is wrong but not to the point where its beyond redemption, and I'm just hoping that he'll turn around, otherwise, he'll continue driving himself to ruin.
Basically, due process, don't just suddenly condemn the man on the spot, investigate and understand why he did those things, then you can make the right decision moving forward. That's what makes an ethical system/ framework justifiable.
Yes there are various reasons as to why Miya would be upset over his father's actions, and rightly so. But not even taking a second to consider why your father made such decisions? and just focusing on how certain actions affects your own feelings and no one else? now that's unfair, and selfish. Just merely listening to your dad is something she is very much capable of doing, you don't need to be older to do that much. At least Kousuke is trying to rectify what he did wrong before and does what he believes is best for Miya, and at times messing up, but TRYING nonetheless. The moment Kousuke suggests something that doesnt fit with Miya at all, she immediately throws a fit and does something damaging, when she is very much capable of just talking it out with her father, until they reach a point where they're able to make the best decision for the mean time (hence why i called her a cunt, since she is not being compassionate and giving his old man a chance at all). I mean you're his daughter, at least make the effort to be the ear that listens to his woes, but she didn't. Instead, Koto became that ear.
@VermillionOcean
No I am not saying his actions are excusable (refer to my previous post "Yes, i'm very much aware that his actions are not without repercussions or not reprehensible to some degree"), just not surprising after what everyone is putting him through. Yes his actions are condemnable, but they're not as severe as rape or murder now are they? Whether a certain act is unethical, there will always be a solid ground as to why that person did what they did. Some can be forgiven and deserves a shot at being vindicated, others are just illogical to even be considered to be pardoned. We saw what happened to Kousuke, yes what he did is wrong but not to the point where its beyond redemption, and I'm just hoping that he'll turn around, otherwise, he'll continue driving himself to ruin.
Basically, due process, don't just suddenly condemn the man on the spot, investigate and understand why he did those things, then you can make the right decision moving forward. That's what makes an ethical system/ framework justifiable.