Yes, no, we got that part, hubby.
I'd be like, "Could you maybe elucidate some other aspects of this relationship, since you seem to be the only one in the know?"
(Actually I might snark more than that and be like, "HAH! Marriage is only 'till death do us part, so I've got a get-out-of-jail-free card right here, my dear widower." This would probably get me in even more trouble, mind.)