My Wife Is From a Thousand Years Ago - Ch. 179

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Most Asian family isn't that hard headed like in dramas and comics, they are still your family, they care more for your happiness than what other people may thinks.
Here Qing himself said, "at worst I'd just feel his angry belt again" and he meant it. If he make mistake his dad will do it again.
Well, while my parents aren't that "hard-headed", my aunt was. She and her husband was like that. Their son couldn't even get a girlfriend, and almost get dragged into a marriage without his own consent for the betterment of their family...
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I even got forced to cover his ass when he was secretly dating a girl. What a wild times
 
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Well, while my parents aren't that "hard-headed", my aunt was. She and her husband was like that. Their son couldn't even get a girlfriend, and almost get dragged into a marriage without his own consent for the betterment of their family...
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I even got forced to cover his ass when he was secretly dating a girl. What a wild times
That's pretty rare, how old is he tho?
 
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That's pretty rare, how old is he tho?
It was during highschool if you ask the time he almost got matched up by his parents. Now he's in mid twenties and already moved out from the house. He's safe for now but soon I bet his parents would nag him to get married.
 
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My older cousin got set up with his wife by our extended family...... They gave them but 2 weeks to get to know each other and used every method to get them together. He cracked under pressure.

Some families are really like that. I just hope my cousin is happy now.
My parents are more laxed and lets me and sis do whatever though. Thank god for that.
 
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If this is stereotypical asian dad all asians have my sympathy for holding back and not swinging on them for disrespecting their wives and family.

This kinda talk would absolutely cross the line with me to be honest and while I wouldn't let him continue and ask him to leave that...That was kinda shit of him.
I get he has this all in his head of worrying for them and her but my god....
Are you insane? How can any sane civilized person even think of doing that!

Your dad and mom have more experience. Whatever they say does have reason and logic behind it. Blood bonds are blood bonds, his wife till she doesn't give birth to his child is not completly counted as an absolute family member.
 
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Are you insane? How can any sane civilized person even think of doing that!

Your dad and mom have more experience. Whatever they say does have reason and logic behind it. Blood bonds are blood bonds, his wife till she doesn't give birth to his child is not completly counted as an absolute family member.
I'd rather have strict parents than become someone psychotic enough to beat up their parent. Most of the time I keep my opinions to myself considering how different people have different views and ideologies but this man is completely wrong for that.
 
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Are you insane? How can any sane civilized person even think of doing that!

Your dad and mom have more experience. Whatever they say does have reason and logic behind it. Blood bonds are blood bonds, his wife till she doesn't give birth to his child is not completly counted as an absolute family member.
depends on the parent. not all parents care about their kids, a lot of parents have a preconceived notion of what they want their child to behave like and succeed at and won't accept any alternative even if it's making their child miserable. some parents outright hate or resent their children and act against their best interest purely out of spite. there are parents who genuinely don't deserve filial piety, granted i do think his dad has SOME redeemable qualities even if he acted way out of line in this chapter

reducing her to an object by saying "you-know-who", "her" or "she" instead of her name is petty and rude on top of suggesting his son break up with her despite them having a loving relationship and his son considering marriage and children with jiang he. to the dad's knowledge, she's an abused orphan with nowhere to go and nobody to rely on except her son and has up until this point been desperately been working in sweatshops to survive and feed herself. now she has finally found stability and happiness, even getting a form of education, and he wants her son to abandon her at the side of the road because getting an id is tricky? even if it's some sort of test and not his actual thoughts, that's beyond shitty
 
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