there no need extra hind sign. you just have a culture shock.It wojld be great if we got some insight into why she doesn't want to have sex.
Yeah, the only main reason aside from shyness is the fact they haven't done the ceremony. Like Europeans with their first night after the ceremony, she wants her first time to be in a memorable moments, (ancient way of thinking)there no need extra hind sign. you just have a culture shock.
asian still greatly believe in sex after marriage. even when its not rare for new generation do have sex before marriage nowadays, that still be the idea. and probably how it is describe in pg 13 media instead of the hook up culture in the west.
Although they are legit married now, ceremony is just for celebration to modern time. she come from different time, which mean they may not always have marriage paper then, ceremony is what marked the vow between 2 people. so she feel like they not fully marriage couple yet.
At this point maybe she is more afraid of childbirth, haha. And i think she expressed her desire to be "pressed down" on sex, and he being weaker than her is a problem too.Yeah, the only main reason aside from shyness is the fact they haven't done the ceremony. Like Europeans with their first night after the ceremony, she wants her first time to be in a memorable moments, (ancient way of thinking)
I don't think she is afraid of childbirth tho, since I believe ancient people regards childbirth as a blessing...At this point maybe she is more afraid of childbirth, haha. And i think she expressed her desire to be "pressed down" on sex, and he being weaker than her is a problem too.
Basically the ceremony is what she considers real marriage. And besides that she's just shy to surrender completely. Add to that author has to keep this age appropriate.It wojld be great if we got some insight into why she doesn't want to have sex.