The thing is Cry can never apologize without it being seen as provocation because of his position. Though it does not help that other people keep fanning
I think I just figured out why everyone treats Cry they way they do. The six members of Strange Grief each specialize in one six stats. Liz maxed out Speed, Sitry-Intelligence, Sword Guy- Dexterity, Tank Guy - Constitution, Mage Girl - Magic, and Cry - Charisma.