Namaiki na Gal Ane wo Wakaraseru Hanashi - Ch. 49 - Let me understand

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I feel like this is a good manga, but at the same time it's kinda boring.
After I'm done reading a chapter it vanishes from my mind until the next one comes out.
 
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Good that she is trying to be more independent. I'm worried the author will find some way for her job to be traumatizing and of course her brother would have to get involved. Thanks for the chapter!!!
 
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I think something that people are missing out on is what Tanuki was getting Sis to understand. All her issues in the first place came down to her feeling like a burden in the first place. Her lack of self-respect, her self-destructive behavior, and others being able to take advantage of her were all because she felt like a burden on her family. All the effort Tanuki was making was to get her to understand that she isn't a burden on her family, that she is loved, and that she can rely on them. Then tsundere came in and gaslit her back i to thinking she's a burden. It has nothing to do with Tanuki wanting to control Sis, and everything to do with Sis geting manipulated back into feeling like she's a burden.

My advice is that you don't have to already have a plan. You don't have to already know who you will be or what you'll be doing for the rest of your life. You're supposed to grow and change throughout your life, so expecting you to be set in stone during your youth is honestly dumb. It's good enough to only know exactly what you are doing right now, or to do only the very next thing you want to do. You only need to try your best to improve yourself to be using your life correcrly.
 
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Here's my advice : Mistakes. Are. Good.
No matter how badly seen it is, mistakes will happen, and it's thanks to them that we are able to progress
 
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Pretty great writing, even visually translated with the self-imposed distance on the sister. Tanuki realized how selfish his endeavor can be, but at the same time, he is right to be wary.

Any other person, getting a part-time would be no big deal. But the sister seem to still consider herself a burden, and now that she thinks she sees him getting along with Mochikuzi, she's taking this as a cue to push herself out.

Funnily enough, that's even the opposite of the psycho girl wants, so the sister is not only ignoring what she truly wants but what everyone else wants.

Truly, you can't love someone that don't love themselves. She's not a burden but literally the revolving part of this beautiful mess. Do not leave the bosom of those wholesome yanderes! She's even safer than a president with those two around
Something something the only one who can sympathize with you and understand you is you.
 
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Advice? Sure, let me share my lived experience.

Don't fall for "fat is beautiful" bullshit. It is not attractive for the vast majority of people, but that's a trifle next to the fact that obesity is a gateway to a multitude of very serious illnesses and diseases, including these of cardiovascular, inner secretion, and locomotor systems.

Especially as you get older, obesity makes you weaker, less energetic, aging faster than your more fit peers.

It increases the risk of a stroke (which turns you into a drooling vegetable unable to speak or stand up to shit somewhere other than your own bed) or diabetes (with all of its consequences up to gangrene of extremities like fingers and toes).

If your health allows doing sports, try to keep fit. Even if it doesn't, control your caloric intake - it's not expensive and it's not too hard, if you do it every day and make it a habit.
 
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Yeah I think I may have been right in my previous comments, he likely does have hidden incestuous feelings for his sis and he himself has not fully caught on to it, and that is what is eating away at his psyche.

But Mochizuki has caught on to it, and she is trying to kill the incest route in the cradle before it starts.
Hidden?!

But jokes aside, this has to be a fictional Japanese incest wank, because no boy alive would ever turn down insane, fun pussy because of a sexual obsession with his adopted sister.

At worst, he'd try to fuck both, but he certainly wouldn't "Oh, I'm so pissy and overprotective, I must keep this thot who wants my D away from my Thot-sister who I definitely don't want to dick down."

Anyhow, if any of you have a sibling where you have actually acted like this, you are welcome to correct me.
 
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My middle theory is, Mc doesn't realize his obsession with taking care of his sister but yandere girl does. Her ultimate plan is making big sis independent. Mc doesn't realize he's gonna hold her back from being her own woman.
 
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The one who needs to understand is me, because this plot makes no sense
 
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I hate all of you stupid fucking incestuous freaks with nothing but your moms sagging tits in your mind mc needs to murder that annoying bitch causing unnecessary fucking problems
 
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so the author took what was seemingly a nice theme (non-sexual, familial love) and decided to make the MC suddenly not a fan of this outcome.... why
 
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So is MC going to make her understand in a non-familial sense? I get the feeling that the unease is stemming from his unrequited love. He thought he wanted things to go in a way where they are a “family”, in reality the family he thought he wanted was wrong. He wanted something closer than just family with her. Sadly Tanuki hasn’t figured this out…
 
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so the author took what was seemingly a nice theme (non-sexual, familial love) and decided to make the MC suddenly not a fan of this outcome.... why
So is MC going to make her understand in a non-familial sense? I get the feeling that the unease is stemming from his unrequited love. He thought he wanted things to go in a way where they are a “family”, in reality the family he thought he wanted was wrong. He wanted something closer than just family with her. Sadly Tanuki hasn’t figured this out…
No, problem is, the crazy bitch, through manipulation and gaslighting, made the sister feel like a burden once again. That's why she decided to look for a job all of a sudden. For the "good of the family". And that's why MC is angry. Bitch fucked up everything he was working towards which is for the sister to feel like she is part of the family for real and not a burden. Sister reached an understanding but that was the bitch's fucked up "ideal family" one. Bitch doesn't care about the sister as long as she gets what she wants.
 
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Why can't bro just be happy that her big sis is starting to understand social cues better and shit? What a moron lol
 

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