If your girl/wife is getting it somewhere. If it's not from you... Assuming the girl isn't a virgin and still bound by the Saving It thoughts of course.
Lol Reminds me of a story. This guy had a girlfriend. He adored her, but he refused to touch her. He did so based on. He didn't want to taint her with his impure touch. Stupid right. Well he went farther.
He never actually told her he loved her even though he did. He never held her hand. He never complimented her, And one day before he moved away to start high-school in another town. The girlfriend got desperate, and she striped to her underwear. What she was hoping for was. He would show her that he loved her by being physical with her, and telling her he loved her. Instead what he did was ran away embarrassed, and left her there sobbing. So ten years pass by he's in contact with her, and he finds out she's now married. This retard thought. She would still wait for him after ten years. Moron was like oh now I'm ready to show her I love her. What a retard.
Like anyone would still love someone who ran away leaving them sobbing like that, and refusing to show the person the love that they wanted. In the end the guy was alone, and wasted those ten years being a beta retard. When some one is in love with you, and wants you to show that you love them back. You go for it. Don't make the person wait forever, and or don't all out refuse to show or tell them that you love them. Just because you're embarrassed. That's just pathetic, and beta to the max.