yea, I do pity her for that to a certain extent, but just the poor guy. you can't help but feel like he's being toyed with. I know she doesn't mean it that way and it's hard on her, but still, it's hard on him, too. I understand this is just manga, but if it were reality I'd hope that at a certain point her friends/family would step in and mediate an explanation before things got too far.
I see your point though, I'll go easier on her lol