It's really not. It's embarrassing, awkward, ill-defined, and on a whole just worse than "crossdresser".But "femboi" is not only totally fine but it's a lot more fun to say.
If using a cute word is embarrassing to you and is less so than jokingly invoking a classic hate crime defense, I think that says more about you than anyone else.It's really not. It's embarrassing, awkward, ill-defined, and on a whole just worse than "crossdresser".
You are doing just a stellar job of advocating for the word "trap" to be completely shelved. Linking a Wikipedia article that doesn't actually use the word, suggesting a "smol bean uwu" alternative with a vaguer meaning, and then doubling down and calling it invoking a hate crime defense; they're going to build statues of you, you know?If using a cute word is embarrassing to you and is less so than jokingly invoking a classic hate crime defense, I think that says more about you than anyone else.
Your seeming trouble comprehending my source doesn't make my point invalid. Read further, specifically the "trans panic defense" and... well, has public education failed so badly that people can't draw a parallel between that and "trap" ? Or has attention spans gotten so bad that people won't even read that far to begin with. Do I need to skywrite it for you why "trap" is an upsetting term to the LGBT community in that light?You are doing just a stellar job of advocating for the word "trap" to be completely shelved. Linking a Wikipedia article that doesn't actually use the word, suggesting a "smol bean uwu" alternative with a vaguer meaning, and then doubling down and calling it invoking a hate crime defense; they're going to build statues of you, you know?
I, personally, was surprised that the word "trap" was used here. It might be closer to the word that the character used, but I still would have expected "crossdresser" or "male crossdresser". Well-defined, well-known, inoffensive terms. When I want people to move away from a term I find offensive, those are the things I look for in an alternative. You know, because it's more important to me that they avoid the offending term than pick up one I find appealing.