@EdenSphinx wut? Bro, some guys are bottom, some are not... Some girl are bottom, some are not... That's some "Beta/Alpha" shitty logics, that's just how it works. And by doing what you say, you are not helping
I’m not sure if my opinion is valid since I’ve been single my whole life but... If I’m not mistaken then a woman taking charge doesn’t necessarily equate to pegging right?
@OtomeAddict yep!! theres such thing as dominant partner in general or just on bed. the pegging is usually related to bdms i think because not every submissive is a masochist. they may like being lead but not all like pain. usually i call the position who dominates as top and the ones who sub is a bottom but it may also refer to the position on bed because a dominant can be at the bottom and the sub can be a top. its mainly depends on your understanding and construct. theres no 1 way to actually completely defines it. but theres also such thing as switch which can go both ways.
Hey! Communication! The best way to create a good relation (if one can be made). Seems like this might work out - just let her take the lead most of the time (since she's better at it anyway) and once she's comfortable and trusting it can be occasionally swapped around. XD