I feel bad for these two. Gomi is actually a genuinely kind and considerate person, it seems like his natural empathetic tendencies were twisted and suppressed by others forcing opposing mascline ideals on him, which also made him hypersensitive to the feminist backlash of those same ideals.
Yumezora is trapped in the role of support character, not allowed to complain and knowing she is always primarily valued based on a careful balance of sexual desirability and availability. She has referenced classic shojo ideals twice now, such as femininity as a source of power separate from heterosexuality in magical girl shows, and kind, gentle pure princes in fairytales.
She clearly doesn't believe she or any man could ever live up to those things. She is hypersexual, unable to live without a man, and the men in her life are absent only interested in use of her body, which must always be in presentable condition.
I highly doubt I'm reading into this as the author intended, but it is clear he seems to be questioning a lot of heterosexual gender norms.