Otaku ni Yasashii Gal wa Inai!? - Vol. 5 Ch. 35 - Otaku & Gyaru & Reminiscent Talk

[TinsleyNocturnal]

Extroverts terrify me. Who in their right mind would invite so many people without consulting anyone else they had previously made plans with? I can't fathom how anyone would be okay with that sudden development.

 

[tanabataz]

Thanks for the chapter

We got that backstory to build up the pairing now the girls can stay together, while the dude get with the new best girl introduced in the latest raw chapters

best ending actually, cant hurt those 2 as friends like that

 

[Kiyoshiro]

oh boy i had this experience last week me an introvert male invited my mom and sisters for a b'day dinner.i asked to be just us small family they promised and at the day my mom bring her friends,my sister bring her bf and his entire family.
the whole time i just sat in the corner and eat my food
good news is at least they paid for my food

 

[elhessan]

she dont mince words, but honestly same. if i had plans with friends, and 5 extra people showed up outta nowhere id be mad too

This happened to me once.. it was a surprise party for one of my friends. There were supposed to be only 6 people, but one of my friends invited the whole class. honestly, Amane was really polite. When I was in that situation, I went straight home without saying a word to anyone.

 

[Bibliothecarius]

Thnks for the chapter!

 

[Satoru.Gojo]

Can someone tell me how many chapters are planned for this series🙏🙏

 

[blablablub]

I'm glad SEO wasn't forgotten in this little flashback

 

[jonnywarlock]

Damn. I wonder if they'll somehow patch things up end up as friends?

...

Oh. Wait.

 

[Shad24772]

Especially if it's a bunch of people with the same gender expression, and then suddenly it's 50/50 with the other and mixed. Not saying that's always unappealing, but it's a VERY different group dynamic and vibe than when everyone is just platonic and no one has to play the games that happen when someone of the opposite gender is present. It can't help but be a completely different type of hangout when that happens, and it's pretty impolite to change the vibe of the proposed hangout that much without checking with the people you initially invited.

Sometimes it's just really nice to hang out with people who don't have to worry about all the romance and attraction games and masks people wear in that type of group, and to suddenly have to worry about that kind of stuff when you were expecting something different can be pretty jarring.

yea. i'm fine if i hang out with some dudes and suddenly a few more dudes show up. but when some of the randoms show up with girls i'm like "wtf? who the hell's the couple and what's it doing here? they won't hang with the rest of us, anyway" and they mostly in their own world, so i wish they'd fuck off

 

[Ultenth]

yea. i'm fine if i hang out with some dudes and suddenly a few more dudes show up. but when some of the randoms show up with girls i'm like "wtf? who the hell's the couple and what's it doing here? they won't hang with the rest of us, anyway" and they mostly in their own world, so i wish they'd fuck off

That's it's own separate issue, but yeah that can mess with the vibes too. It's not as bad if they come with a partner though, as when it's just a bunch of single people looking to mingle. Because that REALLY changes the vibes when people start hitting on each other and playing all the games that accompany the courting rituals. At least when they are already there with their partner that stuff doesn't come along with it, even though it does still change the vibe somewhat.

 

[henman]

fair

 

[the_Bear_from_Bearcave]

Honestly don’t blame her. Doesn’t help that Ijichi didn’t let anyone else know to see if they were okay with it. Also, sure it was polite for the guys to ask if they can come along but maybe don’t buy into other people’s plans. Maybe I’m just over reacting

I don't agree with not buying into other people's plans, because it can be often common way to hang out, especially when larger group of people like most of class is already friendly with each other, and such "buying in" can led to people becoming better friends or striking out new friendships, like Ijichi intended. It's just she should absolutely let others know and consult them before agreeing, especially if there were people like Amane who rarely hang out with others and barely know anyone.

In case of something like the cast of "You and I are Polar Opposites", I can totally see characters from MCs' class wanting joining any activity started by few of them, but the vibes there are very different. I even think something like that ("Hey, what you guys doing? Can we join?) happened there once or few times.

Extroverts terrify me. Who in their right mind would invite so many people without consulting anyone else they had previously made plans with? I can't fathom how anyone would be okay with that sudden development.

I think Ijichi treated it like the initial period and season of "integration activities", like those that schools or companies sometimes makes you join when you're new student/worker, with her (incorrect) implicit understanding that everyone is still trying out to get to know as many people as possibly to forge new friendships for the high school period. It was still only two weeks into beginning of high school.

By my own experience Amane should have just left after all no real point in sticking around if the original plan is already out the window

That could just make it worse, as other people would then be curious or worried about why she left so early, which could spiral into some pointless drama. She still barely knows anyone, and does want to have some friends eventually, any risk of making it a bigger thing than just between her and Ijichi would be wrong move IMHO.

 

[Shad24772]

That's it's own separate issue, but yeah that can mess with the vibes too. It's not as bad if they come with a partner though, as when it's just a bunch of single people looking to mingle. Because that REALLY changes the vibes when people start hitting on each other and playing all the games that accompany the courting rituals. At least when they are already there with their partner that stuff doesn't come along with it, even though it does still change the vibe somewhat.

yes. that's even worse. i stopped going out with co-workers when female ones started showing up in the "team". it's such a pain. middle school levels of dumb.

 

[jolynehoestar]

Letsssss go

 

[Ultenth]

yes. that's even worse. i stopped going out with co-workers when female ones started showing up in the "team". it's such a pain. middle school levels of dumb.

Like, don't get me wrong, plenty of women are great hangs and I have zero problem with mixed gender hang outs a lot of the time. But all too often it leads to drama as people who are only there to find mates mess up the entire vibe.

 

[GreC_89]

By my own experience Amane should have just left after all no real point in sticking around if the original plan is already out the window

Unlike us, she smart. She read the room and don't make a scene that will make drama and Everyone awkward.

 

[Animepedia]

Thanks for the chapters

 

[Sylveran]

she dont mince words, but honestly same. if i had plans with friends, and 5 extra people showed up outta nowhere id be mad too

Yep. You never, Ever, spring up new people on an Introvert. It was hard enough to gather the courage to handle socializing with the small 4-girl group and then they dump additional boys on top of that. She does have a right to be pissed and think better of accepting another social gathering offer from her again. The larger the group, the more she ends up fading in the background due to natural shyness and the more upset she'd be at the end of it since she spent so much of her social battery on people she wasn't even keen on talking to in the first place.

 

[the_Bear_from_Bearcave]

Yep. You never, Ever, spring up new people on an Introvert. It was hard enough to gather the courage to handle socializing with the small 4-girl group and then they dump additional boys on top of that. She does have a right to be pissed and think better of accepting another social gathering offer from her again. The larger the group, the more she ends up fading in the background due to natural shyness and the more upset she'd be at the end of it since she spent so much of her social battery on people she wasn't even keen on talking to in the first place.

On the other hand, they know her for barely two weeks, and think she's an ice queen that simply doesn't care much for company of others, not introverted otaku. Ijichi was in the wrong, but misunderstandings happen, especially so early on.

And remember that Amane does want friends and it's not like there is anyone else so willing to break ice with her. Obviously the best way forward is honest and open communication, and we know they will become besties soon.

 

[RiffRaffROTFL]

Yep. You never, Ever, spring up new people on an Introvert.

It's not necessarily about being introverted. I'm an introvert but things like this doesn't really bother me because I don't have the social anxiety that's at the root of it.