@MrEd From what I remember he/she has not been confirmed to be one or the other. But as you can see the consensus is that the androgynous character is a she
Looking back at previous chapters, din is right. The person resembles the girl, Noh saved back around chapter 9 and is most likely the person he met when buying the necklace for his daughter in chapter 29. Jeez, I forgot a lot more than I thought